Rabbits don't lay eggs

By Jill McKenzie

April 13, 2017 12:00 AM

As Easter approaches, stores have filled up with chocolate eggs and all the holiday paraphernalia that comes with it.
Whether it is the $40 stuffed animals or just the sheer amount of chocolate consumed, the whole thing can get excessive and, frankly, the more you give a kid the harder it is to impress them.
On one hand, it makes sense to compare prices and try to get more for your dollar.
In other words, shopping online for the treasures and treats that the Easter bunny will deliver, or comparing bulk vs. prepackaged chocolate, or making your own desserts rather than buying ready-made.
There are many inventive ways to get yourself the same lavish, over-the-top Easter feast that you were used to before the drop in the price of oil.
As parents, it’s hard to scale back spending on birthdays and holidays because you want to give your kids the best you can.
Parents might be tempted to do without at other times and still push the boat out on special occasions.
And there’s nothing wrong with that.
But, if you’ve been struggling to get back on your feet, is it realistic to keep sacrificing in order to keep up appearances?
At what point do you say enough is enough and stop the cycle of spending money you don’t have?
And when do you allow your kids to adjust to the truth, rather than hiding it from them and perpetuating unrealistic expectations?
Maybe it’s time to accept this as our new normal, and adapt rather than imitate.
Easter is a holiday that, for many, has become less about religion and more about the arrival of spring.
To some, it’s nothing more than a week off school and a chance to eat chocolate.
There comes a time when we, as parents and grandparents, must decide if we will just go with the flow and allow all our old meaningful holidays be swept up in the current of consumerism or if we will take a stand against it and stop buying in.
What are your favorite Easter memories from childhood?
A visit with grandparents?
Possibly a walk through puddles or an Easter egg hunt?
Did you travel to see family or did you have relatives stay over?
Do you actually remember how much chocolate you received?
Does it matter now?
If buying your kids a new super hero themed Easter basket every year, along with a set of fuzzy rabbit ears, a stuffy, a toy, the list goes on, is what Easter means to you, well, to each their own.
But if you can’t afford it, maybe it’s time to reconsider the memories you want your children to take with them into adulthood and parenthood themselves.
How about a walk to collect pussy willows in a bouquet?
How about a trip to the library—God save ‘em—for some books and movies which you then read or watch together, never once glancing at your cellphone?
How about your children be in charge of making the meal, or help, with supervision, depending on their age?
What will they remember better, that time they made gravy for grandpa?
Or the time they scored some new sneakers from the Easter bunny?
It’s hard to say, anymore.
Maybe kids would hate that and dig in their heels about having to help.
All the more reason to make them.
It seems like the more plastic there is involved in a holiday, the more commercial it has become and the further it has drifted from the original reason for celebration.
If times are tough under your roof, why not return to some more traditional customs and forego the plastic Easter that has slowly become the norm?
Buy a dozen eggs and some food colouring and dye eggs with your kids.
Let them take the lead and pick their colours and designs.
Set up a treasure hunt that has challenges and tests skills.
Make the focus of this Easter the people, not the stuff.
Let’s become a compassionate society and forego the Facebook and Instagram pictures of all the loot your kids got this Easter. Let’s make it socially unacceptable to splash materialism across social media feeds. Let’s frown on it.
Instead, show pictures of yourself doing things with your kids.
Go climbing trees.
Play at the park. Let those pictures characterize your timeline.
Show off what you have done for others.
Instead of showing baskets of chocolate and gifts that you have received, post only images of what you have given to those in need.
People are still hurting.
There are kids that won’t get much this Easter, just like they didn’t get much for Christmas.
But if they are given time and attention, it might be their most meaningful holiday yet.

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